Frequently Asked Questions
How do I know if it’s time to talk to a divorce lawyer?
You don’t need to be 100% sure you want a divorce to speak with us.
Many people come to us while they’re still deciding what they want. They aren’t looking to file tomorrow—they’re looking for information.
A conversation with our team can help you understand your options, your rights, and what life could realistically look like if you decide to move forward.
Sometimes clarity is the first step.
What happens during a consultation?
Think of it less like a legal meeting and more like a strategy session.
We’ll learn about your situation, answer your questions, discuss your goals, and help you understand what comes next.
You do not need to have everything figured out before you call.
Most people don’t.
What if I’m not ready to file for divorce yet?
That’s okay.
In fact, many of our clients aren’t ready when they first reach out.
Some people are gathering information. Some are weighing options. Some are preparing financially or emotionally before making a decision.
You don’t need to know exactly what you’re going to do to start getting informed.
How much does a divorce cost?
The honest answer is: it depends.
Every family, marriage, and divorce is different.
The cost of your case depends on factors like the level of conflict, whether children are involved, how assets need to be divided, and how willing both parties are to work toward resolution.
During your consultation, we’ll discuss what your specific situation may look like and help you understand the financial side of the process.
How long does divorce take?
There isn’t a one-size-fits-all answer.
Some divorces are resolved relatively quickly. Others take longer because of custody disputes, financial issues, or high conflict dynamics.
Our goal is never to drag out your case.
Our goal is to help you reach the best possible outcome as efficiently as possible.
Will I lose custody of my children?
This is one of the biggest fears we hear.
The reality is that courts generally want children to have healthy relationships with both parents whenever possible.
Every situation is unique, and outcomes depend on many factors.
We’ll help you understand what the law says, what the court looks for, and what steps you can take to protect your relationship with your children.
My spouse handles all the money. Am I still protected?
Yes.
Many people enter divorce feeling completely in the dark about finances.
That does not mean you’re powerless.
Part of our job is helping uncover financial information, understand marital assets, and ensure you have the information you need to make informed decisions about your future.
What if my spouse doesn’t want the divorce?
You generally do not need your spouse’s permission to pursue a divorce.
While their cooperation can impact how the process unfolds, one person cannot usually stop the other from moving forward indefinitely.
We’ll walk you through what that looks like in your state and situation.
Do I have to go to court?
Not necessarily.
Many cases are resolved through negotiation, mediation, or settlement discussions.
If court becomes necessary, we’ll be prepared.
But our first goal is always finding the most effective path forward—not creating unnecessary conflict.
What if my divorce is high conflict?
You’re not alone.
We work with people navigating everything from communication breakdowns to situations involving control, manipulation, intimidation, and ongoing conflict.
Our team helps create structure, strategy, and a clear plan so you’re not reacting emotionally to every new challenge.
Can I date while my divorce is pending?
The legal answer depends on your state and circumstances.
The practical answer is that dating during divorce can sometimes create complications.
If this is something you’re considering, we’ll help you understand the potential risks before you make any decisions.
What makes My Confident Divorce different?
We believe divorce is more than a legal process.
It’s a life transition.
Most law firms focus on paperwork and court dates.
We focus on helping you move forward with clarity, confidence, and a plan.
We believe you deserve answers. You deserve support. And you deserve a future that’s bigger than what you’re walking through today.